{"id":252,"date":"2015-10-04T00:50:37","date_gmt":"2015-10-04T00:50:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=252"},"modified":"2015-11-01T00:23:58","modified_gmt":"2015-11-01T00:23:58","slug":"my-husband-made-me-do-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=252","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Made Me Do It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I made the mistake of telling my husband about it. \u00a0 I wasn&#8217;t sure I could do it. \u00a0I wasn&#8217;t sure I wanted to do it. \u00a0He told me I could and I should. \u00a0I gave him several excuses. \u00a0He didn&#8217;t listen.\u00a0\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-255 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/31-Day-Challenge-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"31 Day Challenge\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/31-Day-Challenge-300x300.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/31-Day-Challenge-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/31-Day-Challenge.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>He just kept telling me to do it. \u00a0So I did.<\/p>\n<p>I signed up to do a 31 day writing challenge. \u00a0It&#8217;s a challenge to bloggers to write for 31 consecutive days.<\/p>\n<p>In the light of a new day, I&#8217;m cringing at my decision. \u00a0I don&#8217;t have the time. \u00a0I already have a fairly full calendar. \u00a0I&#8217;m\u00a0\u00a0trying to keep up with four seniors in high school while my husband works all week long in another city! There are already some days where I feel like I&#8217;m just keeping my head above water. This is just not the right time. At least that&#8217;s what I tell myself&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Honestly, it&#8217;s my fear that gives me pause. \u00a0What am I going to write about for 31 days straight?! \u00a0I&#8217;m not that creative. \u00a0That kind of writing is for other, more talented writers; not me. \u00a0And what if I fail? \u00a0What if I miss a day?<\/p>\n<p>What if?<\/p>\n<p>What if I take a leap of faith and dive in? \u00a0What if this causes me to grow as a writer and a person? \u00a0And what if I do miss a day? \u00a0It&#8217;s not eternal.<\/p>\n<p>So here I go. \u00a0I&#8217;m not sure what this will look like. \u00a0I&#8217;m not sure it will be pretty.\u00a0 But here I go&#8230;.I&#8217;m getting it out there.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>31 Day Challenge:\u00a0 Getting It Out There<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=252\">Day 1: My Husband Made Me Do It<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=244\">Day2: The Spiral of Shame<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=249\">Day3: Waiting for My Full House<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=257\">Day 4: Reminders of Home<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=266\">Day 5: Homecoming<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=274\">Day 6: Being 17 Again<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=280\">Day 7: It&#8217;s Time for a New Trend<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=286\">Day 8: You Have to Be Willing to Burn Some Flour to Make a Good Roux<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=291\">Day 9: Singing Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=298\">Day 10: What if the Answer is No?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=303\">Day 11: Today I Feel Like Holding a Puppy<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=309\">Day 12: I Took the Day Off<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=312\">Day 13: How do you find relief?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=319\">Day 14: Sweet Indulgences<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=323\">Day 15: What I&#8217;ve Learned in the Last 15 Days<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=329\">Day 16: Impact<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=337\">Day 17: Complacency<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=346\">Day 18: Sundays<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=351\">Day 19: Piles<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=357\">Day 20:\u00a0 Adulting is Not for Me!<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=278\">Day 22: Infant Loss Month<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=373\">Day 23: The Frazzled Mom&#8217;s Smile<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=385\">Day 24: How to calculate value<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=392\">Day 25: What&#8217;s a weary soul to do?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=405\">Day 26: It&#8217;s hard to part with my toe ring<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=416\">Day 28: Trying to run in the muck and mire<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=428\">Day 29: My Heart<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=432\">Day 30: I wonder what my mom thought<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karen-gustafson.com\/?p=439\">Day 31: Onicon<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I made the mistake of telling my husband about it. \u00a0 I wasn&#8217;t sure I could do it. \u00a0I wasn&#8217;t sure I wanted to do it. \u00a0He told me I could and I should. \u00a0I gave him several excuses. \u00a0He &hellip; 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